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Hi all - i see we have quite a few ner members here, and my heart goes out to you all, because i understand been there dome that and wearing the T shirt.
Looking at basic advise for you all:
Contact GP and get a referal to CAMHS
Contact Parent Partnership - they are so helpful
Keep a daily diary of everything
I am not professional by a long shot but this was the advise i was given all those years ago and it helped me no end.
You will all find so much support on here so keep posting as it helps you as a parent feel you are not alone, there is always someone to help.
That's great advice, thanks Sarah. I hadn't thought about keeping a diary of what's been going on, but it would probably help a lot, in practical ways as well as getting things off my chest...I might even be able to get to sleep before 4am lol.
A diary to document everything and a journal/diary to express feelings are both good. I write a lot in my journal when I am frustrated and it really helps and stops me also firing off at my son.
Linda
>Contact GP and get a referal to CAMHS
>Contact Parent Partnership - they are so helpful
>A diary to document everything and a journal/diary to express feelings are both good.
And I add:
>Keep copies of all correspondence
>Make notes at all meetings and share them if there are no minutes