Hi everyone

Where is everyone? Has term started? Very quiet on here lately...

Just to update my situation. I contacted the old school just to see what the situation might be if my son did decided he couldn't continue at the new school. They told me that they do not take students half way through a term and that if he did return for next year he'd probably have to repeat Year 9!!
This news actually settled my son - it made a decision for him - he now has to commit to the new school and he is motivated to try and get really good marks so that if he does then want to go back to the old school he has more chance of going straight into Year 10 and not repeating. I feel relieved!!
It is now holidays here - so no more school talk for two weeks : )
Take care everyone and remember there is always someone on here to help you - you are not alone.
Linda

It is easy making decisions in the holidays, isn't it? But you both need the break from the tension.

I do hope that your son continues to feel that the new school is the best for him. Going back would have been hard, I felt.

Take care,

Simon

Thanks Simon. Yes I would imagine that going back would have brought a whole set of new or returning emotions for him - and we would have been in the same or worse situation. Although I can see - from his point of view - that the more familiar was looking better than the unfamiliar.

He has done a couple of amazing things these past couple of months though. I would never have thought he'd do a complete day at one new school - and then several days at this other new one. I never would have thought he'd actually be able to achieve something like this. Not sure he sees it this way - and he still is trying to hide his head in the sand - but we can only try and keep moving forward and that incredibly slow pace that school refusal moves!
Take care
Linda