What in the world would make you jump to conclusions like that?
I agree with El - they are capable adults and will get all the pup's needs figured out. Be positive and/or helpful - not judgmental.
The sky isn't falling because someone else is getting a puppy and your not in charge.
Don't worry be happy!
I think we can rest assured that any puppy belonging to any of our El's family members would never be described as a "poor little puppy". Here's wishing your daughter much happiness with her lucky new addition. :)