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Re: I've tried everything

Hi Linda
in answer to the question did my daughter's motivation increase with homeschooling, i'd say yes and no.

the yes is to do with the anxiety of worrying about school and going etc being taken away - that helped.

the no, she continued on working for a time, but we had a period where she got a bit fed up doing work at home and she was, of course, not concerned that it was only mom who was supervising. teachers seem to have a different effect on kids.

but that passed. it was probably just the novelty of being at home i guess.
when it did pass she went back to doing her work and she learned how to manage a lot of it herself and it encouraged self discipline.

having said that, she has that ability in her, always had. so while it might have worked for her, i realise it's not for everyone.

i was only glad to see the anxiety ebbing away and a happy, relaxed person emerge after so long.

hope your son is doing okay at the moment.

and a belated happy st patrick's day to all.