Hi
welcome. it's great that your son was willing to go to college to do his subjects and i'm sorry he's starting to refuse to continue. have you asked him if he has a reason why?

also if you feel he shows any signs of Aspergers, would you be willing to go for an official diagnoses? my nephew was missed for Aspergers even though his mom was always convinced that something was 'off'.

not being diagnosed early enough did affect his schooling and early adult life.

i know you may not be a fan of medication, but talking things through with a professional could be a small help for your son. there maybe something available shortterm to get him through this blip.

best of luck

Virginia